Ashley's the name and Daddy's Girl is the game. I am: engaged to the love of my life, a photographer, a musician, a full-time student, and a proud southern girl. I am often impatient, always opinionated, and sometimes can't control my temper - but if you can't handle me at my worst you damn sure don't deserve me at my best.
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Do not claim to be a Christian if all you are going to do is judge and damn other people. True Christians know that there is only ONE judge. True Christians also know sin is insurmountable (which means if the people you are pointing your finger at are going to hell then they will see you there).
1. a person who pretends to have virtues, moralor
religiousbeliefs, principles, etc., that he or
she does not actuallypossess, especially a person
whose actions belie statedbeliefs.
2. a person who feigns some desirable or publicly
approvedattitude, especially one whose private life,
opinions, orstatements belie his or her public statements.
I was consumed by summer classes at my university, attempting to have a life outside of them as well, and I completely forgot about this thing. It is not like people read it anyway.
I have days when all I can do is obsess. Over what? People. What kind of people? Malicious, lying, manipulative, vicious, rude, immature, disrespectful people. Not people. A person. A person who is also obsessed. Obsessed with drama, chaos, “stirring the pot,” with the suffering of others. This person has another obsession: pretending to be a good person. I do not enjoy being forced to be polite to this person but, alas, welcome to adult hood.
There are people on this planet who are still alive because I do not favor extensive paperwork or life in prison.
Ireland 2010 on Flickr.
It is time to cut ties with the person the title of this blog makes you think about. You tell each other your deepest secrets, text constantly, and hangout all the time. This person is your best “friend”. Pretty soon, though, people you never talk to can tell you your life story. Your phone stops singing the SMS que despite how many times you text them. They are always too busy for you but they are stupid enough to post about their shenanigans with other people on their Facebook.
Cut the bullshit people. Stop sticking with people like this. All they do is hurt you, piss you off, and let you down. Trust me - there are much better people on this planet for you to spend your time with. I have cut ties with scum friends three times in my life so far and each time my life gets a little brighter.
We are living in a politically correct, overly sensitive, and hypocritical world. We all have opinions and we all want to speak them. However, we don’t truly have freedom of speech anymore. Do we? No. Don’t say the wrong thing or you will be sued! I believe in voicing your opinion without the sugar coating. I am honestly not sure how often I’m going to post or what I’m going to post about.
For now, today’s tip: Grow the hell up and embrace your faults. I know you have it in you - somewhere.
